Concept of family disintegration
These days generally everyone have feel of loneliness in their life
Gyan Jyoti/Ex chief Manager, Bank of India/Patna
These days generally everyone have feel of loneliness in their life . It is true and I have analysed on this pertinent issue which has affected social value to a great extent.
As Indian economy with beginning of new phase of Globalization and economic liberalization during the 1990s , social culture has also liberalized. Majority now wants that their life should also be liberalized and lead a free life .
We are copying most of the thing from western world so social life is also copied from them . But now things are changing there and we have just beginning to lead a liberals life.
We are following outdated of western lifestyle rather just started. Nowadays younger generation, specially from eastern states like ,Bihar, Jharkhand ,UP, Odisa, Bengal, Assam are moving to metropolitan cites for perusing higher education in professional courses and after completing the study, getting jobs of their own choice there only, as opportunities are not much available in eastern states of their likings.
Normally they often do not get time to visit homes and their visit to homes are not even for a week sometime. They are slowly and slowly adopting culture of metro cities.
The main binding bonds of a family is ladies who keeps the family and that is why they are categorized as HOUSE MAKER . With due respect to younger generation of ladies, they wished that heir initial life should be liberals and free . They normally don’t wish to live with their in laws, exceptions may be there, I am not dying.
I still remember my mother & admire her for keeping family of over 50 members united as a single family. We used to visit Patna twice in each year together & she single hanaddly kept the family .She used to prepared foods for ours liking & really She was a example of FAMILY INTEGRATION. We are missing now those of togetherness & bindings. She was the binding force of the family. So ladies are centre of gravitation of a family.
Relations are maintained with sacrifices of the family members and now days no one wants to sacrifice. Personal ego is also playing a big role in family disintegration. Every member of family have different feelings ,no respect and regards for seniors .Earlier their used to be head of a family and each members listen to him and respect his decisions. Nowadays family means wife and own kids, no cousins,nieces. In many families cousins are living in same city but they are not on talking terms even.
We are heading for SOCIAL DISINTEGRATION, as we are MORALLY disintegrated now, which is a very dangerous sign for coming days.
It’s my personal perceptions which I have shared and what I have experienced in my life.
